Non-Fiction

1. Learn how to talk, but be unable to correctly pronounce grandpa. Instead, call him “Pacquah” (paw-kah), as that’s about as close as you’ll be able to get. Your grandfather will be upset that he won’t be called grandpa but will get over it when he decides that he’s entitled to pick the most complicated spelling possible.
2. Be in preschool and love the days when it’s Pacquah’s turn to pick you up. Make sure you tell all of the other preschoolers that he’s your Pacquah.
3. Love your grandpa with all of your heart. Visit him all of the time in his red brick apartment building down the street from where your dad works.
4. When your mom drives you and your sister over to see him, always try to guess which window goes to his apartment. Never get it right.
5. Inside, greet the security guard by the doors and smell the chlorine-filled air from the indoor pool. Walk past the fountain and be misted by the cool spray of the water while brushing the back of your hand against the wet stone fountain rim.
6. Run at top-three-year-old speed to the second floor. Race your little sister down the hallway to his apartment. Then when you reach his door, stand there impatiently waiting for your mom to ring the doorbell since you can’t reach it yourself.
7. When the door opens, run to Pacquah. Sit on a stool at the kitchen counter and talk to him while he makes you Easy-Mac and wonder how he makes it taste so much better than the Easy-Mac mom makes you at home.
8. Attack him with the best bear hugs you can manage and fall on the floor laughing uncontrollably when he retaliates with tickles.
9. Take him into the small room by your favorite window with the flowers and attempt to play him something on his keyboard. It will be horrible, but he’ll tell you that it’s amazing anyway.
10. Take one of the colored stones from his miniature fountain that you love so much, but tell no one and feel extremely guilty over it. Keep it with you everywhere you go as a reminder of how much you love your grandpa.
11. Play with your toy dinosaurs when your mom walks in and tells you that he’s been diagnosed with brain cancer, but don’t care that much as you don’t know what that is. Continue playing with your dinosaurs once your mom leaves.
12. On your fourth birthday, when he comes over to see you and is waiting on the back porch for you, cry. Be too afraid to talk to him because all of his hair has fallen out and strange white fruit loops are glued in a circle around his head. Your mom tells you later that they’re for his brain surgery the next day.
13. Go to Disney World with him and your family and fight with your cousin and your mom over who gets to push him in his wheelchair.
14. Remember to always laugh at his jokes, no matter how bad they are because he loves to hear you laugh and to see you smile.
15. Go to his party celebrating him making it through twelve months with brain cancer and past when the doctors said he was expected to pass away. But only be upset that your mom wouldn’t let you bring a bathing suit when all of the other kids got to go swimming.
16. Don’t understand why your mom comes home crying one night six months after the party. You can’t remember having ever seen her cry; be extremely confused and slightly scared, feeling like you’ve just witnessed some deep secret that you were never supposed to see. Forget to ask her why she’s crying.
17. Go to Pacquah’s funeral eighteen months after he was first diagnosed. Think about seeing him again next week. Play with your cousins around the cemetery laughing and picking flowers as the service continues behind you.
18. The next weekend, ask your mom why you didn’t get to go see him. She’ll start crying and tell you that you can’t see him anymore. Finally, understand that he’s not coming back. Cry with her.
19. Start your first year of grief therapy at the age of six. You don’t want to keep going but you stay because the therapist gives you Oreos at the end of each session.
20. Miss giving him bear-hugs and miss his tickles. Miss his smile and his Easy-Mac. Miss his giant peacock statue that was in his bedroom that used to scare you. Miss everything.
21. Forget the last time you hugged him or how much you hated how scratchy his face felt when he didn’t shave. Cry some more.
22. Lose the rock you stole from his miniature, colorful-stone fountain while at camp. Don’t ever stop looking for it for the whole two weeks you’re there and cry to your counselor when camp ends and you still haven’t found the rock.
23. When you turn thirteen, save a seat for him up front at your bat mitzvah service using one of the stuffed animals he gave you when you were still a baby. When the service and the party end, sit in your room and wonder if he’d be proud of the person who you’ve become. Wonder how things would’ve been different if he hadn’t had cancer. Wish that he could have been with you that day.
24. Visit his grave with your dad a few months later in early spring. Ask to have some time by yourself. Go pick dandelions from the lawn and smooth stones from the gravel road and place them in front of his grave because you didn’t bring anything with you. Read a chapter from the library book you recently got out aloud just like he used to do for you.
25. Remember to keep him with you always and to keep smiling because you know he loved you best when you did and because that’s how you live with death.

 

Sarah Bett is an emerging writer from Western Pennsylvania. She is the winner of a 2017 Lincoln Park Writing Award in creative nonfiction judged by author and This American Life contributor, Davy Rothbart. She is also a staff member of BatCat Press.

It’s a warm summer night. Cicadas drone outside. In my cabin, I’m completely asleep, stuffed into a sleeping bag. The room is silent but for a few rising breaths. A particularly nice dream I’m having fades into the background, and I’m groggily aware of a threatening presence standing next to the head of my cot.

I open my eyes slowly; the figure raises one hand high into the air. I’m barely awake- there’s a split second for me to process- and then the hand comes down, smacking me full force on the face.

“I gotta pee,” the figure says.

Meet Matthew!

In the summer of 2017, I had the honor and privilege to work on the staff of a summer camp for kids aged 7-14. When I saw the internet ad, it seemed like fate. At my parents’ awful dinner parties, I was routinely assigned babysitting duty, keeping the younger children out of the adults’ hair. I didn’t mind. Why would I want to sit silently at a table, listening to the world’s driest conversation about loan financing, when I could be playing Cops and Robbers instead? I’m a kid person, with a fairly good work ethic and admittedly excellent patience. A summer camp job was a match made in heaven.

I signed up, made it through the vetting process and interview without too much trouble, and in three short months got a letter of employment: for four weeks of the summer, I would be working in the Firebird Village. I was ecstatic. Firebird campers were 7-9 years old, the youngest age group. They came without the pubescent horrors of Bugbear Village, and without the emotional baggage of the older Raindance campers. Plus, Firebird kids were the most fun.

My first week of camp came at the beginning of Session 2. Two rotations of campers had already come and gone before me, and everyone else seemed more in the loop than I did. I sat on the railing of my cabin’s porch, nervously awaiting something, anything. Thankfully, my cabin had one more staff member assigned to it. Tom was a veteran counselor of three years and just a generally cool dude, so I felt I could ask him for advice.

“You never know what you’re gonna get,” he said simply. “Give up and let it happen.” Surprisingly enough, this did not make me feel better.

Gabe, the Firebird Village director, my boss, came jogging down the hill with a clipboard and a cabin list. Gabe was usually all smiles, so when I saw the expression on his face, my stomach did flips.

“Just a heads up,” Gabe said. “You guys have a lot of bus kids. Good luck.” Tom took the list, and Gabe was gone.

‘Bus kids’ was a friendlier name for scholarship campers, or campers whose families didn’t have the money to pay for summer camp. Every year, a bus from the city delivers a swarm of kids to us. Most scholarship campers have never actually been camping, and are frequently uncomfortable with the great outdoors- a problem summer camp intends to fix. Through grants and donations, the administration pays for the kids to come spend a week in the woods, and then supplies them with sleeping bags, backpacks, and water bottles. It’s a wonderful program, and hundreds of kids get to come to camp each year who otherwise wouldn’t be able to.

As much as everyone loves the program, there’s a bit of a stigma with bus kids. Of course, just like any other group of campers, there’s variation: plenty are model campers, easy to love. Some are well-intentioned troublemakers. The rest, however, were the stuff of legend. Whereas a normal camper could be a handful, a bus kid might be a bucketload.

My first cabin had three bus kids. There was Colten, who was far too smart for his own good. One night, he snuck food out of the dining hall to make a ‘raccoon trap’. Three days into his week, Gabe had to confiscate an iPhone 7 that he had stashed in his luggage. Colten was a planner, and it was hard to keep on top of him at all times.

David, on the other hand, was pretty easy to supervise, because on the first night he decided I was his favorite and wouldn’t be separated from me. David was a sweet kid, even if he had angry outbursts every now and then. He made me hold his hand as we walked around camp.

And Matthew… Matthew was a human disaster. For the five days I knew him, I was constantly amazed at how this living person functioned. He would scream without warning or provocation. Matthew, barely 4’5”, tried to fight every male counselor he saw. Matthew, who didn’t ever want to wear shoes. Matthew, who stole flashlights. Matthew, who ate rocks.

By dinner on the first night, I was ready to quit. There were seven kids in my cabin- three were completely average, two needed constant supervision, one wouldn’t detach himself from my leg, and one was Matthew. At dinner, he went to the salad bar and came back with twenty croutons and a puddle of ranch dressing that sloshed off the plate when he moved. Tom called it a ‘Matthew Salad.’ I called it upsetting.

That week was not a good week for anyone at camp. The two previous weeks had been a breeze, especially for the girls staff. That Monday, the bus dropped off nine problem campers into Firebird’s sister village, Kelpie. Even if it was bad on the male side of the cafeteria, I could see it was worse across the room. If Firebird was a knife-fight, Kelpie was Normandy. There was screaming, and crying, and a mysterious stain on the wall that was either raspberry vinaigrette or blood.

Hunkered down at my table, oscillating between bouts of dread and telling David not to smash his milks, I was faced with an uncomfortable reality. Is this what camp is always like? Do I have three more weeks of this?

That night, Colten locked me and another counsellor, Kendall, out of the cabin. He shouted out the window that we were threatening him with a gun, and then decided that Kendall and I were named “Gay #1” and “Gay #2”. I told myself that this was a nightmare, and when I woke up, I would be in Camp Rock, with Demi Lovato and Nick Jonas instead of Colten the reverse-hostage and Matthew salads. This didn’t happen.

The next day, during our hour off, the Firebird and Kelpie staff sat silently in the break room, totally shell-shocked. Nobody had expected this. Occasionally someone would break the silence, pipe up, and tell us a story about one of their demon campers. We would all moan agreement. Then it was noon again, and we headed back outside to try and do our jobs.

After the summer ended, Kelpie had a survey. It turns out that every staff member in Kelpie had broken down crying sometime during that horrific week. I have a feeling that, if we asked, Firebird would get a similar answer.

That evening, I was assigned Bedtime Meds duty, along with my friend Coop. Bedtime Meds was a nightly parade of campers who had medication they needed to take in the evening. Firebird had three campers that Coop and I shuttled to and from the nurse’s office: two angel campers, and, because karma is real and hates summer camp counselors, Matthew.

Getting to the nurse took long enough. Matthew walked in whatever direction he wanted to walk, and he absolutely refused to be stopped. Coop tried to corral him while I chilled with the two angels. I have to say: while I don’t necessarily condone it, you have to admire his commitment to individuality.

After doing several loops, our intrepid party made it to the nurse’s office. Everyone took their meds. The nurse gave me Advil, and we left. The night was looking up.

Halfway across a giant ballfield, Matthew stopped and turned to look back at us. “I’m peeing in fifteen seconds,” he said, completely deadpan.

“We’re, like, a hundred feet from the bathrooms. Can you hold it?” asked Coop.

“Fourteen,” said Matthew.

We did not make it to the bathroom in time, though we very much tried. In the end, we were about twenty feet short- Coop had picked up Matthew and started sprinting. As a last ditch effort, he set Matthew down in a thicket of trees and told him to go there. Matthew dutifully pantsed himself, and the rest of us- me, Coop, and the other two poor campers who were now twenty minutes late for lights out- looked at each other with a sense of resignation. What are you going to do?

I could tell a hundred Matthew stories, and I have. There were the times when Matthew wouldn’t walk past trees without putting one leaf from each tree in his mouth. There was the time Matthew faked an ankle sprain so he could go to the nurse’s office, where he stole the camp director’s walkie talkie. There was the time when he tried to run away and go home, and I had to chase him through the forest. I could talk about how Matthew always made me pick out his pants for him, and then how he wouldn’t let me leave when he got dressed because he didn’t want to be alone. I had to face the wall and hope that this wasn’t a HR violation.

Instead of all that, I’m going to talk about Matthew at the pool.

It was an especially warm day, so the whole village decided to go swimming. Tom and I marched our cabin down the hill, all the while breaking up kids who were fighting and taking the sharp sticks away from the kids who would use them to start fighting. If that week taught me anything, it was multitasking.

Across the field, I could spot the procession from Kelpie. It felt like it should be preceded by war horns- it had all the cadence of a raiding party. The screams were audible from all the way over here. Girls darted every which way, desperately trailed by counselors in pink shirts. By comparison, our parade looked absolutely serene- which is how I knew something was wrong.

Matthew was not trying to ruin anything, and he was wearing shoes. It had been hours since he last screamed. Weirdly enough, Matthew looked worried.

Any suspicions I had were confirmed when we got to the pool. All of the campers changed into their bathing suits, and Matthew into his basketball shorts (which was a point we thought it futile to argue about). As the kids got ready for their swim test, I spotted Matthew pacing wildly. Without his big hoodie on, I could see his tiny arms waving around, attached to a disproportionately broad stomach. I saw the thick line of scar tissue directly above Matthew’s heart, and I was reminded of just how little I actually knew about him.

As the whistle sounded, Matthew hit the water belly first and started thrashing. He disappeared in the fray of waving arms and kicking legs. When he finally appeared again, he was bobbing several feet behind them, gasping for air, trying as hard as he could not to slip under.

Matthew did not pass his swim test. When the lifeguards passed out swim necklaces, his was bright red- a unspoken symbol of shame. He would not be allowed out of the shallow end.

For the first time since he got here, Matthew started to cry. I looked at Tom in bewilderment. This is Matthew, who picks fights with staff members. Matthew, who steals radioes. Matthew, who seemed so belligerent, so invincible.

As hard as we tried, he refused to get in the pool. Along with with a crowd of other sympathetic counselors, we tried to talk Matthew into getting in, shallow end or not. I bribed him with piggy back rides. I gave him the Cheez-its I had in my backpack. Nothing would get him to budge. I knew Matthew was stubborn, but this was different. Before, he was defiant. Now, he seemed defeated.

Surprisingly enough, other kids who Matthew had spent all week terrorizing- David, Colten, the two angels from his Bedtime Meds run- all tried to cheer him up, asking him to come in the pool with them. David showed him his matching red necklace, but Matthew wouldn’t even look at it.

Through thick, hot tears, Matthew said, “I can’t swim.” And that was that.

I had no love for Matthew, I’m not ashamed to admit. He beat me, jumped on me, smacked me in the face. Matthew called me ‘Pimple Boy’ for two days when I got a tiny blemish on my chin. But I was still his counselor, and somehow, that meant enough to get me to keep trying. As disgustingly cliche as it sounds, maybe that’s what camp taught me: kids who are hard to love need it that much more.

I borrowed a yellow necklace and a green necklace from the lifeguards and clipped them on around his neck. It was a purely symbolic gesture, and I’m sure everyone knew that, but maybe when he had three necklaces he’d be less embarrassed by the red one.

I don’t know if that’s what did it, or maybe he was just done sitting, but finally Matthew stood up and climbed his way onto my back, taking advantage of the piggyback ride I had promised him. We went down the pool steps together. I crouched around the shallow end, trailing him around my neck like a cape, so he could feel like he was swimming. All the other counselors told me how much they wanted a turn with Matthew, making sure to be loud enough that he heard. I couldn’t see him behind my neck, but someone told me later that Matthew smiled the entire time.

When Matthew left, he didn’t seem like a different kid. He still screamed, he still ate leaves. Moments before the bus came, he was ramming his fingers in David’s ears. Even our goodbye was a little anticlimactic- I told him that I had a good week with him (lie), and that I was going to miss him (lie?).

“Bye,” Matthew said, and then he boarded the bus without looking back.

As it pulled out of the parking lot, the kids waved out of the windows at the collection of staff who was here to show them off. They all shouted over each other, yelling about how much they’d miss camp and how excited they were to come back.

Maybe he was copying the other kids, or maybe he wasn’t. Either way, Matthew’s head popped up in an empty window.

“See you next summer,” he yelled at me. And for whatever reason, I hope he meant it.

Hank Wahl is an author from Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, which is probably the least interesting thing about him. He is also a chicken enthusiast and is trying to assemble the world’s first chicken dance team. It’s not going so well.

 

When I was eight, my Uncle Tom, who loves working with his hands, got me a go-kart kit for my birthday, and a few months later, we had it built and painted. His vision was to send me down the tourist infested Lombard street, a steep, curvy, brick road in the middle of San Francisco. But, during our first ceremonial test run on the hill behind my house, one of the wheels very nearly fell off as I swerved to avoid a dog. Uncle T decided the wheels were, “kind of shitty,” so we put it back in my grandmother’s garage and left it for almost four years.

 

 

“There may be fake news but there are no fake uncles.”

–Frederick Wehlen

 

 

Uncle T was trying to teach me basketball. It didn’t matter that he didn’t really know how to play. It didn’t matter that I was too young to properly shoot a ball. He was going to teach me.

On the court, my short, slender, six-year-old frame was completely dwarfed by the 6’4” 200-pound man standing over me.

He dribbled past me, going for the layup. As he jumped up, he said, “Shaquille O’Neal.”

Wow you really crushed that six-year-old.

But Uncle T is not the most agile man, and as he came down, I found myself underneath him. He fell hard, landing squarely on my head.

“Eh, it’ll toughen him up,” he told my mother later.

 

 

“I am the first Brigham to not be asked to leave Phillips Exeter Academy since 1928.”

–Tom Brigham

 

 

Four years after our initial test, we brought the go-kart back. We cut off the old roll bar designed for 4’6” me and pretty much just screwed a little kids’ bike trailer  Tom had found in a dumpster to the back of the go-kart. Having re-sparked our interest, my uncle proceeded to purchase a stroller from “some dude named Jeff” on craigslist to replace the other two wheels.

A few weeks of work later, the go-kart was functional. However, the brakes were questionable, and the steering was imprecise (essentially, you could steer hard right, hard left, and slight left).

Most of his effort had been placed on making it look cool, and look cool it did. He had redone the paint job and carved flames into the back. His specialty was making things look worn, so he added several coats and went over it with sandpaper. The finished product looked like a steampunk hot rod car that had been sized up to fit a human.

 

 

In the Exeter nation, he’s a fourth generation,

but the truth is quite hard to divine…

 

As he scans through the masses of graduating classes,

the Brighams are hard to find.

 

–Excerpt from “Willie and Freddie”

By Tom Brigham

 

 

“Hey Freddie,” said Uncle T over the phone, “any chance we could move breakfast to 9:00?”

I agreed despite my hunger, and an hour later I walked down the hill to his apartment. I rang the doorbell, and a few seconds later the door buzzed aggressively. I climbed up the stairs and opened his door to the smell of pancakes.

“I know you gotta be home by eleven for some funeral or something so we won’t work on our project for too long,” he said.

I was about to tell him it wasn’t a funeral but decided to eat my pancakes instead. They were thin; he insisted on thin pancakes to differentiate his from the half-cooked IHOP ones. He is a pancake artiste.

While we ate, he told me stories from his time at Exeter. We talked about his dismay upon hearing that his brother had been expelled, right as he was about to enter. He told me about his fights with his roommate, and how his banjo skills helped him win friends and influence people.

Suddenly, it was 1:30 and we were just finishing up lunch at a divey Thai place on Clement.

 

“Is looking cool a category?”

–Uncle T

(Upon being asked if the go-kart was being built for speed, handling, or comfort.)

 

 

After what Uncle T called, “decades of planning” (it was really more like fifteen minutes), we showed up at 6 AM on Lombard Street. Armed with nothing but a clipboard, my uncle walked out into the middle of the road, stopping several early morning tourists.

We rolled out the go-kart. Then, he pushed me down a hill steeper than we were sure the brakes could handle, curvier than we knew the steering could handle, and bumpier than we knew the suspension could handle. Essentially, he was willing to send me down a terribly steep road with questionable brakes just for the story.

But I love him anyway.

 

 

Frederick Wehlen is an eleventh grader at boarding school in New Hampshire. He is the fourth generation in his family to attend the school, but none of his relatives have graduated since 1929. They have mostly been asked to leave. This is a character profile of one of those family members: Uncle T.

 

If you’re like me and take months to fully process the extremity of things, you’ll understand where I’m going with this. If you’re a perfectly functioning human with a god given spoonful of eagerness for the future–screw you.

I’m just kidding. We all have our things. My thing, however, is knowing that college is around the corner. When I first opened that acceptance letter, my heart sang a thousand tunes of 50 Cent’s “Birthday”. It was supposed to be a celebration, right? A big whoopy doo from the parents, a congratulatory wine evening with the friends, and a $25 Amazon gift card from Aunt Judy. It felt, however, that people were more excited than I was. I couldn’t complain–I got into my dream school in a beautiful town with a beautiful campus on a beautiful farm with beautiful goats, but man, why wasn’t I jumping for joy? Immediately after the celebratory dinner, I went straight to my room and had myself a little pity party, ironically blasting “Congratulations” by the one and only MGMT. Why was I so desperately trying to hide from this seemingly happy occasion? All I could hear was my mother’s voice in the back of my head, saying, “It’s ok to let yourself be sad.” Sure, it was a cheery line, something out of a romantic sitcom, but it had substance to it. So, here I was–sitting in the pitch black, binge eating popcorn and religiously repeating “Congratulations” until my head was consumed with catchy melodies and melancholic lyrics.

Fast forward to three months later. I’m walking home from school, following my usual route, when I pass by the local bakery. The bakery where, for the past seventeen years, I’ve bought my birthday cakes (always vanilla with chocolate frosting). Children are stuffing delicate madeleines into their small cheeks and pestering their parents for just one more cookie. And that, my friends, is where it hit me. Amidst the sweet smells and smelly children, I came to the conclusion that I was growing up. Literally moving on. No more madeleines or birthday cakes, but ten page term papers and a whole new set of expectations. I was leaving behind everything I was familiar with. I never thought I would be one to fear change. But here I was, drowning in an existential crisis that was the reality of college, listening to Elliott Smith and wondering if he felt the same way.

Fast forward to a month later. I have confirmed my decision to attend Hampshire College, filed all the hefty financial aid forms, and all in all, cannot wait to start a fresh slate. You may ask, what changed? Well, my friends, I merely accepted that life goes on. Carpe diem, seize the day. But really, my fear channeled into excitement. New opportunities, new friends. Ramen noodles and midterms and freedom and freedom. A change was an alien concept to me, but now I’m learning to embrace it and find a new, better version of myself for the years to come. As David Bowie said, “turn and face the strange”.

CHANGE PLAYLIST
“Change” – David Bowie
“Never Let Me Go” – Rachel Portman
“Congratulations” – MGMT
“Sober Up” – AJR
“That Easy” – Yellow Days
“Like It the Way It Was” – The Emergency

Lilly Hershey-Webb is an aspiring film director and writer born and raised in NYC. She is slowly accepting the hefty student loans she will have to pay off after college.